Admission and Selection – Friends of Pro Domme Society

Toelating en selectie – Vrienden van Pro Domme Society

The Friends of Pro Domme Society form a valuable foundation for the platform. They are men and women who feel connected to the vision, who recognize quality, and who consciously choose an environment where respect, safety, and substance come first. Although this group is less visible than the Ladies on the platform, that does not mean the bar is set any lower. On the contrary. Precisely because Friends can gain access to private gatherings and workshops, careful selection is essential.

Within this group, there is no room for anonymity without responsibility. I have personally spoken with or met everyone who is admitted. Not to test for perfection, but to sense whether someone fits within the atmosphere and intention of what is being built here.

Respect as a foundation

What matters to me in this regard is attitude. How someone views BDSM. How someone interacts with others. Whether there is respect for boundaries, for roles, and for the dynamics that arise when people find themselves in a vulnerable or open position. This applies to both men and women, regardless of their role or experience.

The Friends of Pro Domme Society are not spectators on the sidelines. They contribute, each in their own way, to the quality of the whole. This can be through their presence, their energy, their way of connecting, or simply through the respect with which they move within this world.

For that reason, I do not work with direct registration here either. Admission begins with contact. In some cases through a recommendation, in others because someone takes the initiative to reach out. From there, a personal introduction always follows. This can be a conversation, or a setting where we can get a better sense of each other.

Is PDS right for you?

That first meeting is important. Not just for me, but for you as well. Because just as I assess whether someone fits within Pro Domme Society, it’s important that you feel whether this environment resonates with you. That it feels right, without having to be forced. Since private gatherings and events also take place within this group, mutual trust is not a side issue but a prerequisite. Discretion, respect, and the ability to recognize and respect boundaries are a given.

Pro Domme Society is not a place for mass gatherings or casual involvement. Even within the Friends, the group remains intentionally small and carefully curated. This ensures quality is maintained, and that people can move freely within a safe and discreet environment.

If you feel that you can identify with this vision and that you want to be part of a network where respect and connection are central, please feel free to contact me. From there, we’ll explore together whether there’s a suitable next step.


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