Madam Bella

Basic information

Name: Madam Bella
Age: 30
Location: Almere
Availability: By appointment
Languages: Dutch and English

Contact & Practical Information

Contact details: Phone: 06 41916207 | Mail: sexygirl-bella@hotmail.com
Rate: By arrangement, depending on the length and content of the session. We agree on the rate in advance.
One-off sessions possible?: Yes
Conditions for an appointment: We get to know each other beforehand and discuss wishes, boundaries and expectations. An appointment takes place when there is a mutual click and clear agreements about the length, the rate and safe words. Respect, discretion and voluntary consent are important to me.

Personal Profile

What Kind of Dominant Am I?

I have a friendly appearance and a sense of humour, combined with a dominant personality. I like to put people at ease, but I also enjoy taking the lead. I am approachable and clear, with attention for the other person and respect for boundaries.

What are my strengths

My strengths are my humour, my friendly appearance and my decisiveness. I read people and situations well and I am accepting and non-judgemental. I appreciate it when someone is themselves, and I like to give them the space to be so, without shame. I enjoy taking the lead and prefer getting things done to too much talking. Mutual trust and respect for boundaries are important to me.

What I value in an experience

I find it important that someone can be themselves, feels at ease and can be completely in the moment. Mutual trust and respect for boundaries are the foundation for me.

What are my no-gos

Disrespectful behaviour, putting on pressure, ignoring boundaries and not keeping agreements.

Personal vision & motivation

What does BDSM mean to me personally

For me, BDSM is about trust and the freedom to be yourself, without shame or judgement. I love it when someone feels at ease and can be completely in the moment, with respect for each other's boundaries.

Why I Chose to Work as a Pro Domme

I enjoy taking the lead and I like giving people the space to be themselves. In this role I can combine my dominant side with my humour, my perceptiveness and personal attention.

What sets me apart from other Dommes

My own combination of a friendly appearance, humour and dominance. I read people and situations well and I am open-minded and non-judgemental. I like getting things done, with trust, clear communication and respect for boundaries at the heart of it.

Experience & Development

How long have you been active in BDSM

I have only recently become active in BDSM and I am currently still in training with Mistress Moriah. I still have to discover what suits me, and step by step I am developing my own style as a Dominatrix.

Do you continue to develop yourself, and in what way?

I want to keep developing myself by gaining knowledge, learning from others and being open to feedback. Communication, safety and understanding wishes and boundaries are important to me in this.

Beforehand I discuss wishes, boundaries and mutual consent. During the experience I keep checking how someone feels. Consent can be withdrawn at any moment and boundaries are always respected.

The use of safe words

* Green: everything feels good.
* Yellow: slow down, or pause for a moment and talk.
* Red: stop immediately.

Or tap 3 times if I have gagged you.

Safety & Aftercare

How do I ensure physical safety during a session

Beforehand I discuss boundaries, relevant physical complaints and safe words. Because I am still learning, I stay within my knowledge and skills. I keep checking in during the session and stop at any doubt or discomfort.

How do I handle emotional reactions or aftercare

After a session I like to take time for a quiet chat or a cuddle, if the other person would like that. I listen and give space to share how the experience was.

What can subs expect from me after a session

A calm ending, personal attention and room to talk about how the session was experienced. Any contact afterwards is something we agree on together in advance.

How do I handle privacy and discretion

I handle personal information with care. I do not share names, photos or details of sessions without explicit consent. We also discuss how and when contact is welcome.

Terms or an agreement

Beforehand we discuss wishes, boundaries, safe words and practical agreements, such as the length and any costs. Mutual respect, discretion and voluntary consent are central. Both people can pause or stop at any moment.

Specializations & Preferences

Which forms of BDSM do I feel most at home with

I am drawn to Femdom and Goddess worship, in which I am worshipped and admired as a dominant woman. I enjoy taking the lead, with room for humour, trust and personal attention. Because I am still learning, I am discovering step by step which forms suit me best.

Physical, mental, or a combination

A combination of physical and mental appeals to me. I especially enjoy the physical side, because I like being active and getting things done. Mutual trust, clear agreements and respect for boundaries are important to me.

What kind of sub am I a good match for

Someone who likes to leave the lead to me and appreciates my combination of friendliness, humour and dominance. Someone who enjoys admiration and worship, communicates openly and understands that I am still learning.

The most beautiful moment in a session

When someone feels at ease, dares to be themselves and is completely in the moment. I love noticing that there is mutual trust.

What moves me in the work I do

The trust someone gives me and the openness with which they show themselves. It means a lot to me when someone feels accepted and has nothing to be ashamed of.