Press release: 16 August 2026

Pro Domme Society: a new network in which dominant women strengthen one another

The world of BDSM is diverse. Behind every Mistress lies her own story, her own vision and her own way of working. Some have been guiding people for decades, others are still at the start of their development. One immerses herself in bondage and rope techniques, another in psychology, discipline, medical play, needle play or coaching. It is precisely this diversity that makes the BDSM world so special. At the same time, much of the existing knowledge and experience is fragmented. What one Mistress has learned through years of practical experience by no means automatically reaches another.

It was from this observation that Pro Domme Society was born. Not as an organisation that dictates how BDSM should be experienced, nor as an association that seeks to impose a single vision, but as a Society in which dominant women can find and strengthen one another. The conviction behind it is that connection, knowledge sharing and collaboration contribute to greater quality, safety and depth, both for the individual Mistress and for the BDSM community as a whole.

Why Pro Domme Society?

In virtually every profession it is taken for granted that people meet one another, exchange experiences and keep developing. Doctors attend continuing education, psychologists take part in peer supervision groups and entrepreneurs seek each other out to share knowledge and experience. It is precisely contact with others within a field that gives rise to new insights and allows existing knowledge to develop further.

Within the world of BDSM, such a structure exists to a far lesser extent. Mistresses mostly develop their own methods independently and build up their knowledge and expertise from personal experience. That independence is valuable and contributes to the great diversity within BDSM, but at the same time it means there is little opportunity to draw structurally on one another's knowledge and experience.

Pro Domme Society aims to change this by creating a place where dominant women can meet one another as equals. Not because everyone should think or work the same way, but precisely because different visions and experiences can yield new insights. The Society wants to offer room to ask questions, share knowledge, exchange experiences and grow further together, without losing sight of one's own identity.

Collaborating instead of competing

An important idea behind Pro Domme Society is that collaboration ultimately yields more than competition. Especially within the commercial BDSM world, where every Mistress has her own practice, client base and positioning, it can be tempting to regard one another mainly as competitors. PDS deliberately wants to set a different culture against this.

Affiliated Mistresses naturally retain their own style, clients, specialisations and vision of BDSM. It is precisely because no one is the same that there is so much to learn from one another. One person's experience can set another thinking, while someone else's expertise may provide the very answer to a question someone is grappling with. Within the Society there must therefore be room to share experiences, ask questions and also allow different insights to exist side by side.

Connection within PDS therefore goes beyond pleasant get-togethers. It is about a strong network of women who know one another, know where to find one another and are willing to share knowledge and experience with each other. Not to convince one another of one right way of working, but to challenge one another to keep developing. After all, no one knows everything, and it is precisely the willingness to learn from others that forms an important part of craftsmanship.

More than a network

Although connection is the core of Pro Domme Society, that connection only truly gains meaning when members also have opportunities to meet one another, learn together and develop further. That is why PDS combines the personal network with various forms of education and meeting.

An important part of this is the extensive online learning environment, in which knowledge is gathered in a clear and professional way. Golden Members gain access to courses, reference works, practical experiences, protocols, downloads and video material. The learning environment is explicitly not a finished course programme, but a knowledge centre that is continually supplemented with new topics, insights and experiences.

In addition, Pro Domme Society organises workshops, masterclasses, networking events and exclusive private parties. This also creates room outside the digital learning environment to actually meet one another. It is precisely during such gatherings that conversations can arise which cannot be captured in a course or document, but which can be enormously valuable for someone's development.

The learning environment, workshops, masterclasses and events are therefore not separate activities, but different parts of the same vision. They create opportunities to make knowledge accessible, exchange experiences and further deepen relationships within the network.

Who is Pro Domme Society for?

Despite its name, Pro Domme Society is explicitly more than a network for commercial Pro Dommes. Although the Society originated in the professional BDSM world, it is also open to dominant women who do not work commercially but who do wish to study BDSM seriously, broaden their knowledge and be part of a network of like-minded people.

For professional Mistresses, PDS also offers the opportunity to present themselves via Pro-Domme.nl. They can have their own profile page and thereby become a visible part of the professional network. At the same time, their affiliation with the Society shows that they consciously choose development, knowledge sharing and connection with other Mistresses.

For non-commercial Dommes, such public visibility is not necessary. They can join for the other aspects of membership, such as the learning environment, workshops, masterclasses, networking activities and private parties. This means that women for whom dominance is an important part of their personal BDSM experience can also make use of the knowledge and contacts within the Society.

It is precisely the meeting of women with different backgrounds and levels of experience that can add a great deal. A professional Mistress can learn from someone who has lived an intensive D/s relationship for twenty years, while a non-commercial Domme can benefit from knowledge that a professional has built up through hundreds of different encounters and practical situations. Within Pro Domme Society, one experience need not be more important than another; what matters is what people are willing to share with one another and what they can learn from it.

Safeguarding quality and safety

Becoming a member of Pro Domme Society is, incidentally, not automatic. To safeguard quality, safety and mutual connection within the Society, a personal introduction always takes place beforehand. New members are only admitted after there has been personal contact and it is clear that there is sufficient alignment with the vision and values of PDS. The Society deliberately does not want to become the largest possible network, but a strong network of people who can trust and respect one another and who want to grow together from a shared foundation.

Friends of Pro Domme Society

It is not only dominant women who contribute to a strong BDSM community. Submissives and others involved also play an important role in it.

That is why Pro Domme Society offers the membership Friends of PDS. This membership is intended for people who support the vision of the Society and would like to remain involved in its activities and developments. They receive invitations to exclusive private parties, selected workshops, masterclasses and other gatherings, so that they too become part of a community in which respect, development and connection are central.

For people who wish to actively support the mission of Pro Domme Society, the membership of Patron or Patroness has also been established. Through it, they contribute to the further growth of a platform dedicated to quality, education and professionalisation within the BDSM community.

A foundation built on trust

Although Pro Domme Society is now being officially launched, the Society did not come into being overnight. Work on developing the platform has been going on behind the scenes for some time. A deliberate choice was made to first lay a solid foundation before the organisation went public. The website, the learning environment, the memberships and the activities have been built step by step, with quality always taking precedence over speed.

During this development phase, several professional Mistresses joined as Founding Member. They believed in the vision of Pro Domme Society at a time when no fully developed platform yet existed. Their trust, commitment and willingness to actively contribute ideas have made an important contribution to the development of the Society as it is being launched today.

The title Founding Member is a token of appreciation for women who have helped build this initiative from the very first moment. They form the foundation on which the Society can continue to grow.

Lady Annabel
“To me, ProDomme Society means a platform where people, in their search for their BDSM desires, can explore them in depth, knowing that they will be approached in the right way.
Personally, I consider it very important that things are handled professionally when someone dares to step out of their comfort zone to discover themselves or develop in his or her submissiveness. Knowing where limits lie, how a session should be built up and how mind and body respond to stimuli is so often underestimated.
The Society is a safe place where we strive for a high level of knowledge, skill and professionalism. The digital world is a maze in which it is difficult to distinguish who is 'real' or professional and who takes the world of surrender seriously.
We offer information, support and guidance to Dominas and, each in our own way and with our own vision and specialisations, provide sessions, training and guidance to submissive men and women.”

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The World of Maxime
“As a non-classical Dominatrix, I entered this group somewhat hesitantly, only to quickly discover why I stepped in fully with both feet. I stand firmly for authenticity and sincerity, two of the core values held in high regard within Pro-Domme Society.
Within the erotic industry, I searched long and hard for “my place” and where I would fit in as the bird of paradise that I am.
What I find so powerful about the Pro Domme Society initiative is that it is not about “a particular way of being a Dominatrix”, but precisely about bringing together those pearls of authentic self-expression and embodied + high-quality leadership.
We are not here to copy one another, or to tell each other how it all “should” be. We are here to learn, play and discover together what each person's own truth is.
My wish is that Pro Domme Society may be a place within this unique industry where we are encouraged to be ourselves, and where the focus is on learning from and with one another.”

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Mistress Lilith
“There is an ancient power in women coming together; an energetic bundling that we have allowed to be taken from us for far too long in a world that often drives us apart.

For me, Pro Domme Society is not just a business network, but a return to that essence. It is the passion to let our feminine energy flow again, by no longer keeping our knowledge and experiences to ourselves, but sharing them as one powerful collective.
Together we create an environment in which we strengthen, inspire and lift one another to a higher consciousness, where we stop competing and finally start building again from our shared, feminine strength.”

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Mistress Moriah
“I do not believe in competition, but in connection. When women share their knowledge, experience and passion with one another, something arises that is far stronger than what each can achieve individually.
With Pro Domme Society, I want to show that the profession of Pro Domme is a serious profession, in which craftsmanship, responsibility, safety and continuous development go hand in hand. I believe that only together can we raise the level of professional – and more socially accepted – BDSM to a higher plane.
Not by competing with one another, but by inspiring one another, sharing knowledge and giving one another room to grow. It is precisely when strong women bring together their different qualities and experiences that a powerful feminine energy arises which not only allows each individual to grow, but makes the whole community stronger. That is the idea on which Pro Domme Society is built.”

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A community that keeps growing

Pro Domme Society is not a project with an end date, just as BDSM has no end goal. It is a community that wants to keep developing. New knowledge, new techniques and new insights will continually be added to the learning environment. Workshops and masterclasses will keep growing and the network, too, will continue to expand.

For the time being, the Society is focused entirely on the Netherlands. All training, documents and the learning environment are currently in Dutch. International expansion is certainly among the possibilities, but the first ambition is to build a strong, committed and high-quality Dutch network.

The future begins with connection

The founding of Pro Domme Society marks the beginning of a new step within the Dutch and Flemish BDSM community. A step in which knowledge is not hidden, but shared. In which experience is not lost, but passed on. In which women do not see one another as competitors, but as colleagues who can strengthen one another. And in which continuous development becomes a natural part of the profession.

Because ultimately, quality does not arise from someone claiming to be the best. Quality arises when people are willing to keep learning, to remain open to new insights and to build together a community in which respect, safety, expertise and connection go hand in hand.

That is the idea on which Pro Domme Society is built. And that is the idea with which the Society wishes to face the future.

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Note to editors

For more information, interview requests or additional images, please contact:

Mistress Moriah
Founder Pro Domme Society

E-mail: mrsmoriah@bdsmforyou.nl
Phone: 06 13268573 (app only)
Website: https://pro-domme.nl

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